tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post5935924627136481888..comments2024-01-01T03:49:58.702-05:00Comments on Alice's Wonderland: have you had your coffee yet? ok good. let's talk about sex.Alicehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15287792370490363047noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-72715762746493756872009-05-01T11:47:00.000-04:002009-05-01T11:47:00.000-04:00oy! Get a hold of yourself, woman!oy! Get a hold of yourself, woman!TMChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12287499048486219026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-16577544304133529392009-04-30T12:39:00.000-04:002009-04-30T12:39:00.000-04:00I simply have three words for you:
Just do IT!
...I simply have three words for you:<br /><br />Just do IT! <br /><br />Perhaps, I indulged a little too much in the pre-marriage days, but there are several perks to this. 1) you know what you like/ want - and when to hold on when you've got a good thing, 2) you sow those wild oats before you walk the aisle, and 3)there are no regrets about, ahem, missed opportunities (and no indulging in opportunites when you shouldn't!)<br /><br />This will (hopefully) be the only time you can indulge in such "excess," so enjoy it!Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12021517453869315006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-38604003881132879832009-04-29T16:57:00.000-04:002009-04-29T16:57:00.000-04:00As an old lady (43!) I can assure you that my mid-...As an old lady (43!) I can assure you that my mid-30's were AWESOME! I was done having babies, and done with the worries of having them when I didn't want to be having them. Definitely one of those stages of life where being married is a wonderful thing. (Actually, I think it is wonderful nearly all the time, but I think you KWIM.)Karen (formerly kcinnova)https://www.blogger.com/profile/16705613736966783261noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-26682955237492477152009-04-29T01:13:00.000-04:002009-04-29T01:13:00.000-04:00darling , have no fear. I have imagined sex with s...darling , have no fear. I have imagined sex with so man men it's silly and I'm going on QUITE a while now. No harm in fantasy.bernthishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05905337047538489562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-74788017543963959632009-04-28T22:33:00.000-04:002009-04-28T22:33:00.000-04:00I have heard lots about that whole later peak thin...I have heard lots about that whole later peak thing, too, but have yet to really experience it yet. I'm a later bloomer than you are, though, so maybe my peak is still coming? <br /><br />Meanwhile, I agree with everyone who's telling you to do what feels good, within reason. Maybe ho-ing it up a wee bit at least once in your life is something we're all supposed to do. :-)Stefaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10128238432671375399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-70541855894640917342009-04-28T16:05:00.000-04:002009-04-28T16:05:00.000-04:00Oh geez, don't overthink sex! If you want to have...Oh geez, don't overthink sex! If you want to have it, have it! Guys do that all the time. You could be like the first episode of SATC when Carrie decides to have sex like a man...Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09897414542540122640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-31253805917239509562009-04-28T14:35:00.000-04:002009-04-28T14:35:00.000-04:00Hmmm... I'm kind of excited about this. I've alway...Hmmm... I'm kind of excited about this. I've always been, like, I enjoy it, but I don't ever actively desperately want IT. Someone, maybe, but not IT, yanno, just cause.<br /><br />So I hope you're right! Rawwwr!rachaelgkinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18002691394373545956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-5445025328905245582009-04-28T13:25:00.000-04:002009-04-28T13:25:00.000-04:00I do have several eff buddies in the past. Damn no...I do have several eff buddies in the past. Damn now I miss them.:PAndharihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08341293139717998410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-63702831503448719722009-04-28T06:43:00.000-04:002009-04-28T06:43:00.000-04:00I think you should shower before you have sex. Yo...I think you should shower before you have sex. You taste funny, heheLassiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00116052117329679400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-4610096677428830462009-04-27T23:38:00.000-04:002009-04-27T23:38:00.000-04:00ho it up!!
as long as you are practicing safe sex...ho it up!!<br /><br />as long as you are practicing safe sex of course.<br /><br />and im in the middle of that late twenty's thing too.alexa @clevelandsaplumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17455541282046721762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-48298574188422107212009-04-27T22:48:00.000-04:002009-04-27T22:48:00.000-04:00I may be the worst person to seek advice from ever...I may be the worst person to seek advice from ever. I'm the girl forlornly looking at condoms in the Walgreens while filling a prescription. <br /><br />Why forlornly you ask? Because I cannot remember the last time I purchased them (and not in a good way). That being said, if you can find someone to ho it up with, I say go for it. Cause then I can live vicariously through you. <br /><br />I cannot believe I just said this over the internets....Dysfunction Junction:https://www.blogger.com/profile/13675617869105514198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-41147853899778623662009-04-27T22:45:00.000-04:002009-04-27T22:45:00.000-04:00Seeing the use of Bicep sex really makes me feel l...Seeing the use of Bicep sex really makes me feel like I got no chance with the ladies cause I have like no Biceps.<br /><br />That being said sometimes I feel like being single I should go out and have the free-loving sexual romps that have already been mentioned here, but as a friend told me recently- I'm just not that kind of guy.<br /><br />So I battle with my bachelorhood probably the same way you do. I should be able to have some fun but am I also looking for something more?Dmbosstonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05631276118039762167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-25461991260935754762009-04-27T19:36:00.000-04:002009-04-27T19:36:00.000-04:00I am so glad I read the comments before I posted b...I am so glad I read the comments before I posted because I thought I was going to come out all pro-ho'ing and turn off everyone.<br /><br />I think Bicep Sex sounds like a fine idea, as Nilsa says, to quiet the beast. <br /><br />But problem is, if Biceps is any good, it might make it LOUDER.Hotch Potcheryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13205620637311970766noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-16482720225030218112009-04-27T16:19:00.000-04:002009-04-27T16:19:00.000-04:00I can tell you even as a guy, the sex gets better ...I can tell you even as a guy, the sex gets better the older you get. Sex with a 21 year old female now sounds kind of boring. Like you hinted, the experience and desire probably aren't there. And that's no fun.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-36276492153368271512009-04-27T14:33:00.000-04:002009-04-27T14:33:00.000-04:00Okay, I haven't commented ANYWHERE in ages, but fo...Okay, I haven't commented ANYWHERE in ages, but for the love of GAWD I just can't let this one go.<br /><br />1) Yes, yes, DOUBLE YES on the sexual peaking. Ahem.<br /><br />2) As a woman, I don't think the "leading on" thing applies. Men just don't think that way. Especially if you come across as a fun-loving, happy-go-lucky sort, which you DO. They just take the attention happily and don't overthink. WIN WIN.<br /><br />3) Ho-ing. PLEASE. I don't mind admitting, here or anywhere else, that I have a good amount of sexual experience, and in fact many people would have placed me squarely in the HO-ING category at various points in my life. But I am being 100% honest when I say that I don't remotely regret or feel badly about any of it. I find it is much (MUCH!) more common for women to regret NOT having had certain experiences.<br /><br />Executive Summary: You are awesome, rock on with your sexy time, ho-ing dramatically underrated<br /><br />xoxoTesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18085712930407611861noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-37796527643962166382009-04-27T14:08:00.000-04:002009-04-27T14:08:00.000-04:00this def sounds like the SATC pilot episode, "havi...this def sounds like the SATC pilot episode, "having sex like a man." and trust me, you are not the only one with fantasies during inappropriate situations.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-70090925054360588492009-04-27T13:59:00.000-04:002009-04-27T13:59:00.000-04:00I've been thinking about this for thirty whole sec...I've been thinking about this for thirty whole seconds, and I have roughed out a theory:<br /><br />1) If Person A has a love-type crush on Person B, which Person B knows about and doesn't reciprocate, and Person B has sex with Person A, this is bad and leading-on and so forth.<br /><br />2) If both Person A and Person B are just impressed with each other's hotness, and so they have sex, there is no leading-on occurring.Swistlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13126937282657655091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-981063102368949812009-04-27T13:50:00.000-04:002009-04-27T13:50:00.000-04:00Women are only sluts/hos/whores (in my book) if th...Women are only sluts/hos/whores (in my book) if they sleep around for reasons <I>other</I> than sex.<br /><br />If you sleep around because you love SEX I think that is totally acceptable VS the reason most SLUTS do it, because they want the guy to like them, want self-esteem, want to feel accepted and cool, etc. That is totally the wrong reason and it's sad that it seems to be the number one reason why so many sluts exist.<br /><br />Enough with the word slut though, seriously if you want sex for sex's sake then go for it! That's your god-given perogative :)<br /><br />PS don't worry about leading men on...they can take it.Wanderlustinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05997835666384194750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-19858069649551457362009-04-27T13:37:00.000-04:002009-04-27T13:37:00.000-04:00A little bicep sex probably couldn't hurt...A little bicep sex probably couldn't hurt...d e v a nhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02514260896810474173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-77340949116268162692009-04-27T13:35:00.000-04:002009-04-27T13:35:00.000-04:00Oh, I say have a much fun as you want. As long as ...Oh, I say have a much fun as you want. As long as YOU want it and NOT because you are pleasing someone else. Er, just please yourself! Hee!artemisiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12048259618106957687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-77870825042501747132009-04-27T13:33:00.000-04:002009-04-27T13:33:00.000-04:00Hey as long as you two are being safe about it and...Hey as long as you two are being safe about it and both of you are in agreement that it's nothing more, then go for it!Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16323696998854147831noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-40450893931995831092009-04-27T13:23:00.000-04:002009-04-27T13:23:00.000-04:00Interesting if what you say is true about this sex...Interesting if what you say is true about this sexual prime.... <br /><br />Also, do it as much as you want baby.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-30379818750182193562009-04-27T12:24:00.000-04:002009-04-27T12:24:00.000-04:00I second Nilsa's comment and vote for Bicep Sex!I second Nilsa's comment and vote for Bicep Sex!Hillaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10602816507915795709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-71182668979648142262009-04-27T12:03:00.000-04:002009-04-27T12:03:00.000-04:00Am I so wrong to think and tell you that a one nig...Am I so wrong to think and tell you that a one night stand to errrr quiet the beast isn't the worst thing a girl could do?!?Nilsa @ SoMi Speakshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08474642034399063234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-58359310768791374052009-04-27T12:02:00.001-04:002009-04-27T12:02:00.001-04:00I don't think you'll end up ho-ing around, you're ...I don't think you'll end up ho-ing around, you're way too aware of the possibility!<br />I also think that sex can come before intimacy in a relationship and still have the relationship work out. So maybe one of those guys with the sexy biceps is boyfriend-potential?<br />(I think I wandered over from Hillary with 2 Ls a while ago.)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com