tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post3781886796806613802..comments2024-01-01T03:49:58.702-05:00Comments on Alice's Wonderland: match.com update #HUH?Alicehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15287792370490363047noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-27975179655000203722008-12-09T14:24:00.000-05:002008-12-09T14:24:00.000-05:00I say he was nervous. Or maybe he has a rule of no...I say he was nervous. Or maybe he has a rule of not kissing on the first day (which I personally think is stupid if you hit it off well with someone). <BR/><BR/>Just have to wait and see! I know, most annoying point.Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16323696998854147831noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-24495257595895685572008-12-09T04:53:00.000-05:002008-12-09T04:53:00.000-05:00Dude been there. Always wonder why the fuck someon...Dude been there. Always wonder why the fuck someone doesn't try to kiss me on the first date. Reading all your other posts now to get up to date.Sidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16378637266179966793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-53982775167485332662008-12-08T22:38:00.000-05:002008-12-08T22:38:00.000-05:00The fact that you wanted a kiss is a step up from ...The fact that you wanted a kiss is a step up from where I am, so YAY for you!! Here's to a 2nd date...soon!stacie dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02034940984926936683noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-64686715579805398442008-12-08T20:19:00.000-05:002008-12-08T20:19:00.000-05:00AUGH!Why didn't YOU just initiate a kiss if you wa...AUGH!<BR/><BR/>Why didn't YOU just initiate a kiss if you wanted to??? Why is all the pressure on us??<BR/><BR/>-huff huff huff-So@24https://www.blogger.com/profile/18279738816559913671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-31746458977822105632008-12-08T20:18:00.000-05:002008-12-08T20:18:00.000-05:00al-dog i wouldn't take that as a bad sign per se. ...al-dog i wouldn't take that as a bad sign per se. maybe he's old fashioned and i know a lot of people that didn't necessarily kiss on the first date.<BR/><BR/>just see what happens i guess : )alexa @clevelandsaplumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17455541282046721762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-87693803066621582162008-12-08T19:13:00.000-05:002008-12-08T19:13:00.000-05:00I think he likes you as a friend but he isnt attra...I think he likes you as a friend but he isnt attracted to you.<BR/><BR/> You have to realize that it isnt all about you judging if your dates are worthy, maybe you arent worthy sometimes :)Blog hoghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16089898091995628787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-43611940941374947012008-12-08T15:04:00.000-05:002008-12-08T15:04:00.000-05:00My best first date ever, did not end with a kiss. ...My best first date ever, did not end with a kiss. It was also a 6 hour date! And like some of the other people who mentioned similar experiences, now I'm married to the man. Taking things slow really made every stage of our relationship exciting (if that makes sense).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-6710680310947947912008-12-08T13:36:00.000-05:002008-12-08T13:36:00.000-05:00I"m guessing nerves because, let's be honest, you ...I"m guessing nerves because, let's be honest, you don't spend six hours with someone and walk her to the door if you're not at all interested.Joehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07224897497456150769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-64056770071544586452008-12-08T12:04:00.000-05:002008-12-08T12:04:00.000-05:00Maybe he's just being nice or old fashioned. I kno...Maybe he's just being nice or old fashioned. I know it sounds crazy, but it could be true. :)BeckEyehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00119780316809151433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-68788594135072528232008-12-08T11:23:00.000-05:002008-12-08T11:23:00.000-05:00He sounds great. :) I hope there's a date #2.He sounds great. :) I hope there's a date #2.d e v a nhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02514260896810474173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-10891375118141372752008-12-08T10:14:00.000-05:002008-12-08T10:14:00.000-05:00I bet he was shy/nervous/being a gentleman. Here's...I bet he was shy/nervous/being a gentleman. Here's the date #2!<BR/><BR/>P.S. Sorry about your Giants.Pickles and Dimeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14552386798256895855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-40526783261648347362008-12-08T10:01:00.000-05:002008-12-08T10:01:00.000-05:00He could be shy, or nervous about misinterpreting,...He could be shy, or nervous about misinterpreting, or not want to be too forward? On our first date I kept trying to get Torsten to kiss me... but nothing doing. But you've seen how well that worked out!Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15942269316108576622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-17584871871914887942008-12-08T09:46:00.000-05:002008-12-08T09:46:00.000-05:00I am going to agree with others that have said not...I am going to agree with others that have said not to let this get to you. The date sounded really good, and I think that a little nervousness, etc might have gotten in the way. You mentioned that you were a bit rusty and well, maybe he was too. I think that the only time I have kissed on the first date, if you can call them dates, is when they are drunken hook-ups.<BR/><BR/>I hope you hear from him again and get a second chance to see what happens! And condolences on the Giants.Tylerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14053783789193519299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-55244030641827515892008-12-08T09:30:00.000-05:002008-12-08T09:30:00.000-05:00He left you wanting more, didn't he? You have the ...He left you wanting more, didn't he? You have the anticipation of the first kiss to build up to.<BR/><BR/>I say give him another chance. The date sounded amazing!!moohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14368972191690127217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-36815469305471500312008-12-08T08:41:00.000-05:002008-12-08T08:41:00.000-05:00That does sound like a good date. Hope you hear fr...That does sound like a good date. Hope you hear from him!<BR/><BR/>Word verification: "unyin" Onion? Ha.3carnationshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15942247215569463561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-59597429876340729222008-12-08T06:46:00.000-05:002008-12-08T06:46:00.000-05:00Another vote for "don't write it off." The first ...Another vote for "don't write it off." <BR/>The first time my now-dh said goodbye to me, he hugged me. I was disappointed. He rethought it and came back to kiss me goodbye as we were driving away in separate cars. <BR/>It's probably good he escaped right then and there, because I had the crazy inspiration to get in his car and drive away with him (he lived on the opposite end of the state). <BR/>I didn't hear from him for over a week after that, but we've now been married for 21 years. <BR/>You just never know...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-1399310326882531262008-12-08T05:57:00.000-05:002008-12-08T05:57:00.000-05:00Maybe the date was too good to risk 'ruining' it w...Maybe the date was too good to risk 'ruining' it with a first date kiss? There are loads of girls out there who don't kiss on the first date. Please keep us updated anyway, it sounds intriguing!Dynamitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08844323776684401037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-11906893347651002122008-12-07T19:14:00.000-05:002008-12-07T19:14:00.000-05:00For whatever it's worth, I don't think I've ever e...For whatever it's worth, I don't think I've ever ended a first date with an online match with a kiss. I think there's something more formal or tentative about having met online. When you meet someone in person and go out after that, you've already got some of the initial awkwardness and chemistry-testing out of the way, so a first date kiss feels maybe slightly more appropriate.<BR/><BR/>Or maybe I'm just a prude or don't have many good first online dates. Either way, I wouldn't fret yet!Stefaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10128238432671375399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-34500925103807280362008-12-07T19:06:00.000-05:002008-12-07T19:06:00.000-05:00I had a date last night that was exactly the same!...I had a date last night that was exactly the same! I had no idea what to think of it eitherCherishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02224325261264892430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-73929710927349901052008-12-07T18:52:00.000-05:002008-12-07T18:52:00.000-05:00I'm old and married, so I totally miss this time o...I'm old and married, so I totally miss this time of confusion!SLynnRohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15016804259405363833noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-44092016975161110822008-12-07T18:33:00.000-05:002008-12-07T18:33:00.000-05:00I agree with Nilsa, et all. I mean not that I hav...I agree with Nilsa, et all. I mean not that I have a hug-ender sitting next to me or putting a ring on my finger. but ok I just mean don't over-analyze it (easy for me to say). Maybe he was just being a gentleman or taking it slow. Wait and see what happens next.Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09897414542540122640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-31227812744391066812008-12-07T17:56:00.000-05:002008-12-07T17:56:00.000-05:00He has to be shy and was probably nervous. Your ma...He has to be shy and was probably nervous. Your magnificence was overwhelming and he didn't want to blow it by coming on too strong.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-78699942840665383902008-12-07T17:23:00.000-05:002008-12-07T17:23:00.000-05:00david thinks could be shy in that way.david thinks could be shy in that way.Carriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17645141331960382597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-20221321318042657972008-12-07T17:05:00.000-05:002008-12-07T17:05:00.000-05:00a six hr date! that sounds very promising to me! ...a six hr date! that sounds very promising to me! maybe he was feeling awkward? or is one of those guys who is not good at making the first move? who can fathom the male mind? ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13000256.post-13534561062182570302008-12-07T15:47:00.000-05:002008-12-07T15:47:00.000-05:00Count me in with Nilsa and Raven. My last first d...Count me in with Nilsa and Raven. My last first date was from Craigslist and lasted 6 hours. It ended with a hug. We were married in May :) I think we were 3 dates in before the first kiss happened - I'm a "take it slow" kind of girl.Tiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01470163614190777624noreply@blogger.com